Listening Skills

IMPORTANT! This page is concerning listening skills only-- there are other considerations to address (communication skills/peer relations - in particular, how to talk) in relationship healing--these skills alone are often not enough to resolve marital/relationship problems. They are important tools, but the particular intensity of a marital/romantic commitment deserves a deeper look beyond just listening skills (see 'Family' article; also consider purchasing copies of Dr. John Gottman's books, "The Relationship Cure," and, "7 Principles for Making Marriage Work."

A wise person who I cannot currently remember says, "Seek to understand before seeking to be understood." This really captures the essence of listening.

We can all relate to times where somebody was talking to us and we were so lost in thought planning our response that we neglected to really listen to what was being said to us. This communicates disinterest and lack of respect to the speaker. Seek to understand. Continue this article to Read More About Listening Skills.

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